Thank you for your detailed reply.
You haven't found anything helpful yet because the only thing that will be helpful will be perfect and it isn't out there. Anything short of that and you will have to keep searching.
And that remark is just silly. I've tried many methods which claims to be helpful against procrastination without them being perfect. I'm considering drugs here ffs, all of them have side effects and are far from perfect, yet I'm willing to try them if they help me at all to get things done. Even to get things done in a mediocre fashion, that would be better than not completing the tasks I want to do.
The whole thing is silly, isn't it? The fact that you use substances which have uncertainty is just a part of the analysis of the costs and benefits. It's not proof that you have gotten over something that you came to write a thread about. If you truly believe the last sentence you wrote, then what, exactly, is the problem? I don't know that you need meds or anything to get to mediocre results.
I'm sorry if my wording was somewhat unclear or ambiguous. Obviously I haven't gotten over procrastination and I never claimed otherwise. My point was merely that mediocre results are better than the total lack of results which procrastination brings me in a few areas of my life.
Anyway I'm sorry if my responses are not what you are looking for and in fairness I have used supplement after supplement and a few drugs to try to break the cycle of my thought patterns and sadly haven't found any SUBSTANCE that works. That, or things that are effective cause other problems which are then obsessed over.
It seems we are looking for the same thing. I'm sorry that no substance to date has worked for you although everyone's brain responds somewhat differently to them. We are both aware that drugs can alter your mind and that thoughts can alter your mind. I'm merely trying see my options from both ends, as you already tried.
You asked for constructive ideas so I will post a few but they aren't meds so if it qualifies as a hi-jacking of your thread I apologize. These are some ideas I got off of boards like these and have been very helpful.
Thank you for taking your time to write them down, I appreciate it.
- Are you aversive to discipline? A trait that is present in the opposite of procrastination is self discipline. What about authority? How do you respond to authority? For me it was tough when I had issues with self discipline. No one could tell me anything. I had done all the research and I knew more than anyone.
Hmm. My self-discipline could obviously be better otherwise we wouldn't be having this conversation. Authority issues, probably some. Knowing better than anyone is a childish way of thought I outgrew in my teens. The more I learn the more I learn that I'm ignorant about. I try to listen if someone seems have something to teach me. All people do, some more than others and the trick is finding out what they can teach you.
- Do you have low confidence of succeeding in a task? Or very little reward expectation from the task? Check Temporal Motivational Theory: http://blogs.techrep...ech-news/?p=392 "...factors such as the expectancy a person has of succeeding with a given task (E), the value of completing the task (V), the desirability of the task (Utility), its immediacy or availability (Γ) and the person's sensitivity to delay (D). Utility = E x V / ΓD " For me, I definitely have a problem when it comes to reward. If I am due a large refund for taxes then I will be all over that. But I can't get myself to fill out rebate forms for $10.
- For ME, but maybe not you, the perceived reward was always higher if I got something done within a short amount of time. Like, just under the wire. What a rush. Therefore I backed into when I would start a task by knowing the due date and subtracting from that the amount of time it would take. Working without that feeling of the impending timeline, what was the point? I could readily do something else instead and then get the rush by pressing myself.
This is very interesting. I can relate to what you are describing about reward expectation. Putting things off to increase the sense of accomplishment. I feel my sense of accomplishment is somewhat impaired though. I might be looking for excuses and I realise that. I can't shake the feeling that my "reward" should be higher than it already is. My mood is rather flat and if I fail or succeed doesn't really affect my emotions as much as I feel it should. Even the rush of pulling something off against all odds in the nick of time has begun to feel hollow.
Maybe I'm looking for the "magic pill". But maybe, just maybe, there is a chance that my mild ahedonia/depression/apathy/whatever can be much improved by a pill. That's what anti-depressants are for, although whether I'm clinically depressed or not is questionable, I'll ask my doctor.
It's not just productivity we are after, it is the enjoyment of the process and/or the sense of accomplishment we really want. I'm hoping some kind of medication might be able to increase this and make the rewards worth fighting for again. The productivity is merely a side effect compared to the sense of fulfilment a job well done provides for some people. Right now I'm just not feeling I'm enjoying my accomplishments I do as much as others would.
- Remove temptations or distractions. I prided myself on being a great multitasker. They sometimes ask if you are a good mutitasker in interviews. This always seemed to me to be a good trait. Problem for a procrastinator is that the distractions give rise to other activities that may be perceived as more rewarding than the task you are working to complete.
- Compartmentalize your environment. Insomniacs are told to only use the bed for sleeping. This establishes environment cues for the activity of sleeping. If you procrastinate your studying activities, then make a place where they only thing you do there is study.
- The single most helpful thing has been meditation rather than medication. I found that I was living my life in either the past or, even worse, the multiple potential future scenarios. Meditation teaches mindfulness of the present moment and helps with calmness of the mind as well as focus and concentration. These traits help when it comes to getting things done.
- Use behavior oriented approaches to help reinforce what is good and what is bad in terms of task completion. Punish yourself by taking away your distracting sources and reward yourself with these things on task completion.
Enjoying the process is very important. Meditation has helped me with this somewhat. It has mostly been helpful for my concentration and to my self discipline though. Visualisation techniques has helped improve my mood too.
A separate work space as helped me avoiding the Internet when I try to study, the part I have trouble with is finding it worthwhile to sit down and actually do it.
The more Pavlovian approach is something I should be more strict about and also a very good idea.
All excellent suggestions.
They say "work is its own reward" but this is only true if you enjoy the process or the sense of accomplishment it gives you. The rewards my neural circuitry provides me with seem pretty meh and I seldom find it worthwhile to put in the effort.
Here is a quote from the movie pumping iron:
Arnold Schwarzenegger: The greatest feeling you can get in a gym, or the most satisfying feeling you can get in the gym is... The Pump. Let's say you train your biceps. Blood is rushing into your muscles and that's what we call The Pump. You muscles get a really tight feeling, like your skin is going to explode any minute, and it's really tight - it's like somebody blowing air into it, into your muscle. It just blows up, and it feels really different. It feels fantastic.
It's as satisfying to me as, uh, coming is, you know? As, ah, having sex with a woman and coming. And so can you believe how much I am in heaven? I am like, uh, getting the feeling of coming in a gym, I'm getting the feeling of coming at home, I'm getting the feeling of coming backstage when I pump up, when I pose in front of 5,000 people, I get the same feeling, so I am coming day and night. I mean, it's terrific. Right? So you know, I am in heaven.
Maybe I'm not training hard enough, I admit that could be the problem. But perhaps my brain chemistry somehow inhibits me from feeling the same sense of reward that Arnold does. The rush Arnold gets from lifting weights is something I envy and perhaps I can increase that rush through the power of thought or more weights but I'm not giving up hope this is something modern science can help me with.
I just want the rewards to be worth fighting for, right now I feel they seldom are.