So, I tried lemon balm in tea form today. It seemed rather weak (1600 mg of dried leaf material), and I'm guessing capsules or essential oil would have given me a better effect.
It was strangely stimulating. About an hour later I rubbed lavender essential oil on my wrist (one drop like usual), but the stimulating effects of the lemon balm overpowered the lavender, and I never entered into a state of pure relaxation or sedation. Kinda weird since the two combined should have activated the benzodiazepine receptors. Six hours later I'm still up, though I haven't tried to sleep. No noticeable effect on mood. Next time I'll either use two teabags or just shell out the $30 for the essential oil.
I'm also confused about nicotine and lemon balm. Apparently lemon balm displaces nicotine from nicotinic receptors, so where is the excess nicotine going if it can't bind to its receptor? If anything, vaping seemed a little less rewarding tonight, but I still got the effects.